Friday, July 13, 2012

Love is pain but pain is not...

There's always a time in one's life when one wish to be in love;then some good day you fall in love and start enjoying every moment of it.. then become more sensitive and emotional and increases to a level that you start feeling pain in love... 
then unluckily... one loses his/her love... and feel more pain of losing the love... but life goes on whether a sparrow dies or a hero falls... and teaches lessons and we get comfortable with the loss...
but the worst part starts.. when you start feeling pain being NOT in love...

in short... love causes a lot of pain around itself... but the vice versa is not true..

and at the end you wish that you can be in love again... once you have experience all the stages... wishing love... falling in love... enjoying love... pain in love and now the last... being NOT in love you will know the faces of pain...

i name it painful love even though being in love is not painful.....but the thoughts of pain around love make you feel even worse...but there is always hope... and the best part of all this cycle is that...

one day... this pain will make sense to you...





6 comments:

  1. Love is not about pain.. our misunderstanding of our emotions and love cause us the pain. at the end of the day, you are the one who hurt yourself .. so don't blame love or attach to him something we caused.. if love can talk .. it will tell you who causes the pain to whom.


    Love, The beautiful human feeling. The criminal. The king who ruled. The abandoned. The victim. The slaughtered. The fallen.
    “She hardly ever thought of him. He had worn a place for himself in some corner of her heart, as a sea shell, always boring against the rock, might do. The making of the place had been her pain. But now the shell was safely in the rock. It was lodged, and ground no longer.” ~ T.H. White, The Once and Future King
    We blame love for what we have done. We blame others for failing in love. Do you ever asked yourself … “Did I ever felt love?”

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  2. you did not get the thought i presented here my friend.. i did not say that being in love or feeling love is pain.. i said something else..

    may be you need to read again before you quote another author like me who says that being in love is an amazing feeling...

    i did not say that being in love itself is pain.. and if you try to get the title.. i did not say pain is love.. or being in love is pain.. i just explained how pain revolves around love because of our thinking and at the end we will realize that this pain makes sense..

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  3. but why the pain will make sense ever? I didnt get this part.

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  4. the pain will make sense when we will realize that all the past was a learning experience and nothing more than that and without having that pain we would have not reached to our beautiful current life and at that moment when you look back at that past of pain around love..when everything will be perfect.. u will realize that the pain you got makes a lot of sense.. :)

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